Never let time heal your wound. Time is slow and everything can be controlled by your mind. Never get carried away by your feelings because it is the steepest cliff that anyone can put himself into. Never believe in true love,true love is stupid, true love fades away. Believe in Labor of love. Always find time to think about the present state that you are in because you may be confined in your comfort zone and you have the world that offers the greatest things in life. The greatest enemy of a great life is a good life. Do not listen to yourself, talk to yourself.
What your mind can conceive, your body will achieve. Basically, this is a formula for success. It was also a tag line from a synthetic vitamin shown a long time ago with a man and a horse running together. Everything can be solved by physics and mathematics. Here is a way that may help you and let it be a guideline if ever you get into trouble letting your feelings eat you and overpower the paradigm of your life. What you are now is a result of the actions that you have done before. Ika nga, kung ano ang itinanim mo, siya rin ang iyong aanihin. What you shall be tomorrow is the result of the actions that you do today and the decisions you make for tomorrow.
A feeling is intangible and the tangibility of the feeling is conceived by our actions. So relatively speaking, a feeling is most likely the trigger to any action. Most of us are driven by our feelings, sometimes we get carried away by it that our feelings launch a trigger for a nuclear bomb that annihilates another person or maybe a whole generation. Most people say that you can never control your feelings but sensibly there is another thing that must be added to the formula to control the trigger that may lead to one's destruction. Thought. the process of an action starts from a thought, then the thought amplifies the way we feel and feeling leads to the initiation of any action.
We can control our thoughts. Thus controlling our thoughts changes the way we feel and changes the action that makes it tangible. Start by thinking if we really need to put ourselves in a certain situation and always think that whatever situation you put yourself into, it will lead to your betterment, advantage and well being. No one wants to put himself or herself in a miry clay. After you have given yourself a thought then your thought commands your feeling to do a certain action. With this you have a control of your feelings. It is all in the mind. People who let their feelings drive their lives are nothing but total losers. Feelings are very unstable, it changes from time to time like the weather. How can a person be well if he/she is driven by an unstable premise.
Don't forget to think, only you can mold your future and personality. Don't be a loser. It is an uncomfortable state to be in. Cry, after you cry there is hope. Weep, because a smile is waiting for you. Mourn, and comfort steps in after that. Pity, that is the seed of strength. Be afraid, you shall harvest courage. That is the balance of nature. Choose to quit and you will lose, it is the easy way out. Champions never lose because they never quit. You may lose battles sometimes but the experience in losing battles will give you a chance to win a war if you learn from the mistakes and digesting the lessons and applying it to the next battle.
Success is the peace we have in ourselves. You choose your success. But the greatest success that a man can ever have is his peace with God. Huwag ng matigas ang ulo, isuko mo ang lahat sa Diyos at makakahanap ka ng kapayapaan...that's a thought you might want to consider.
